Dating and religion

This is something that I have been dealing with lately. I have been told that your dating relationship should glorify God and there are some boundaries that God gives his people.

  Spiritual  Relationship Principle  

• Be considerate of one another. Do not be a stumbling block 1 corinthians 10:32-33
• Go on dates with doubles; home before midnight; Dress appropriately
• Be absolutely pure -Ephesians 5:3/ 1 Timothy 5:2 
• Get Advice- Proverbs 19:2/19:20   

  Here is something that I want you to think about this as you are reading this most person with a disability get help from the government so along with that comes some guidelines that we have to adhere to when working in order to keep out finical and health befits giving to us by the government. Now I know most of you know but if you don't I am a woman who is physically disabled. I have been disabled my whole life. I have always believed and still do believe in God. I am currently in a dating relationship with a man who is also physically disabled. Now you all are wondering why am mentioning this?  Before I have people commenting and saying that there is no exception to what parts of God's instructions I as his daughter shouldn't follow. I want you all to keep in mind that no two walks with God would look the same. Now for those of you who don't have anyone in your life with a physical disability life can be more challenging. I have been blessed in the sense that I am mentally able to learn and think for myself and the same for my boyfriend.  Now to give you a bit a background Me and my boyfriend meet in college, we dated one year and then took a break for a year because he wanted to grow spiritually which happen in 2017 Then a year later he decides to ask me to be his girlfriend again in 2018. We have now been disciples for three years and we have been dating while being followers of Jesus for two years. I have the desire to someday be married.    

What  I struggle with when it comes to my faith and my dating relationship is that I have been told by other believers is that before my dating relationship moves to the next stages is that there needs to be finical stability which I understand why is said but I also wish the actual reality of what my life is like is taking into account. It is a challenge to get employed but, that doesn't mean that I stop looking for a job. I have been told that I am not able to drive so that means that I would have to use public transportation to get around. I wonder how is that someone who has a physical disability gets finical stable. when we are looked we are atomically judged just on our physical appearance and not given a chance to showcase our skills?  

 

Keeping the faith

In life things happen that you wish never happen. You think to yourself am I the cause of everything falling apart around me? The truth  is no you are not the cause of everything falling apart.Sometimes something have to fall apart for other things to fall into place. In your life time you meet people that change your way of thinking and then you meet others that were only in your life for a second. I just want to thank all the people that have been there for me during my hard times in life. For those of you who had made a difference in my life I thank God for you. God thanks for giving my the tools to fight all my battles head on. I would never forget that you are the one that give me life.

Some thing to think about

We as humans often think that we only need to dress our physical bodies But let us not forget that we must at all time dress our spiritual bodies as well. Do not to ashamed to speak of your wrong doing. We all have done something wrong in our lives at one point or other. You must know that we have a heavenly farther that knows us inside and out. He knows when his childern have done wrong but, he is also our forgiving farther! Never be afraid to confess your wrong doing to the lord.

In Times of Gratitude

O God,
You know how relieved and grateful I am for the good news
I have received! Naturally,I was apprehensive hoping for
the best, but often worrying and imagining the worst.

Thank you for begin with me and enabling me to handle
the tension and anxiety that were min. With the question
marks behind, may I new devote my thoughts and energy
to becoming healthier and stronger each day. Amen

God's love

God's love is ever boundless

It spands a world-wide chart;

Yet it reaches down to you and me

And dwells within our hearts.

God's love is ever fathful,

Steadfast through every day.

A love that never forsake.

He'll be with us always.

God's love is never-changing

He's everyday the same.

He loves us now. He always will.

Oh, gloy to His Name!

God's love is never-ending,

Lasts through eternity.

Forever and forevermore.

His love for us shall be!

-Beverly J. Anderson

Silent Sermon

A member of a certain church, who was prrviously had been attending services regularly, stopped going. After a few weeks, the preacher decided to visit him. It was a chilly evening, The preacher found the man at home alone, sitting before a blazing fire. Guessing the reason for his preachers visit, the man welcomed him, led him to a comfortable chair near the fireplace and waited.

The preacher made himself at home but said nothing. In the grave silence, he contemplated the dance of the flames around burning logs. After some minutes, the preacher took the fire thongs, carefully picked up a brightly burining ember and place it to one side of the hearth all alone then he sat back in his chair, still silent.

The host watched all the quiet cotemplation. As one lone ember's flame flickered and diminished, there was a momentary glow and then its fire was no more. Soon it was cold and dead. Not a word had been spoken since the initial greeting. The peacher glanced at his watch and realized it was time to leave . He slowly stood up, picked up the cold, dead, ember andplaced it back in the middle of the fire. Immediately it began to glow, once more with the light and warmth of the burning coals around it.

As the preacher reached the door to leave, his host said with a tear running down his cheek, " Thank you so much for your visit and especially for the firey sermon. I shall be back in church next sunday. We live in a world today, which tries to say too much with too little.Consequently, few listen. Sometimes the best sermons are the ones left unspoken.

My Task By Maude Louise Ray

To love someone more dearly everyday,
To help a wondering child find his way,
To ponder o'er a noble thought,and prayer,
And smile when evening falls.
This is my task.

To follow truth as a blind men long fo light,
To do my best from dawn of day til night,
To keep my heart fit for His holy sight,
And answer when He call.
This is my task.

Our Relations By Sixous

The relation is the situation reeled in the bait of lust and infatuation amiration lustation series of dictation, sensation , developing, over durations......probation...commununication.. temption my equal Im thinking it's my destination... I'm hoping without any deliberation with guidece from God's will, the hevenly creator of creation of my life long partner laying the foundation..... But is it just a blot.. Certainly i hope not another cost just to lay my head must you forget we live and we rot though we live to betget not the soul is matched with clot in completion of my journey of lifes. Through the incubation of time and tribulations only the relation let be for real datings endure frustrations.. The battle the will to survive and seek holes to hide .. buy in or be gone with the wind doubting you helplessly yee of lil faith are you.... am i your friend. What a trend strong I be for I seek froever the rubekness of what thy week laughing to the heat that makes you beat.. Doubt attract doubters friends off cowards your done while negative energy sends energy to other negative followers.. Follower I say For He bleaches the paved the negative charges to a decay they leave to the weak for it was and has been written.. and the unbelievers that torch in disbelief. Clean without liquor or dope as I be prue as it is.. It's not the Wiz nothing fale it grows as a kids I before Him knowing a sinner from the beginner the ability of patience is a skill that even tortos came as a winner. The more one leans the demands of a man in relations to the walk through of the burning sands forgiveness comes from those who matter.. no matter what that come my way my lifes in HIS brain matter. Turth be told to have is to hold if I am to release all strains for the sake of argument of no hope and defaet i'd rather release it towards the good o perservirence of Gloy if able at GOD'S feet. I'll change for my Father for he does not hold me any higher demands of seek change until HE gives His hand.

Daily Christian Wisdom

Just remember, man gives the award. But God gives the reward."

The strongest antidote for hopelessness is to find a way to give back...-Susan Saradon

Perfection, in a Christian sense, means becoming mature enough to give ourselves to others.
-Kathleen Norris

The truth of the matter is that you always know the right thing to do. The hard part is doing it.-Gen. Norman Schwarzkoff

I am beginning to learn that it is the sweet, simple things of life which are the real ones after all.-Laura Ingalls Wilder

It is necessary for us to suffer patiently the dark night of sorrow and death, if we are to enter the brilliant new light of Easter...

The world steps aside to let any man pass if he knows where he is going.-David S. Jordan
Many of us spend our whole lives running from feeling with the mistaken belief that you cannot bear the pain. But you have already borne the pain. What you have not done is feel all you are beyond that pain. --Kahlil Gibran

Led By God

Led by God, I strive to live As though any Christian did. A life that was clean and just A life like all believers must. It's hard to say that all I doI do for the Glory of God's Truth. I try and try, but I have to accept. that I can never be made perfect. So glad am I that from this place. I will leave and live in Grace. Love was poured out in His Bloodfrom the Anointed of the Heavenly Dove. Because of this, I do have hopeI'll walk the streets of gold. Eternal Life has been given me. I will eat of the life-giving tree. After all that I have been through,One thing, I know, is true. That because God's Love will never ceaseIn Him, I have found my peace. So led by God, I will strive to live.