Tuesday, September 30, 2008

"What I would do if I saw a child being verbally abuse"

If I saw a mother being verbally abusive to her three-year old, I would offer some help in the from of counseling for both her and the child. I would offer, to accompany them to the counseling seesion. If the mother declined my offer I would attempt a different approach.My approach would be to become friends with her to see if I could be of any help to her. If she it willing to open up to me and tell her about her childhood, that might give some insight on some possible causes of the abuse.After she is done telling me about her childhood, I would then offer my thoughts on what might be cauing her to be absive towards her child.Then I would like to get some more insight on how the child about being verbrally abused and I would try to find out what the three-year old child believes the reason for the morther being abusive is. I would let her know that if the abuse continues it would result in her child acting out and seeing if he or she receives the love and affection that is not being given or the child may feel hate towards her as the years coontines. I would also advise the monther to find her child a postive role modle ouside the family. I would ask the mother to please keep me updated on the situation.

Sunday, September 28, 2008

Me after high school

i know all my readers have been waiting for a new post. i have been busy with college which is going well. at the moment my major is undecided am just taking my basics. i have meet some amazing people who i have become real good friend with. i also have upper classmate looking up to me. there are times that i feel like giving up but then i remind myself of my purpose for going to college. that propose it to prove to the people that say that i was never going to become nothing that i will become something my teachers have told me that i have a gift as a writer and that is good to know because one of my life time goals is to write a book on the struggles that people like myself face on a daily base so that people who are not disable can learn not to take any of there abilities for grantee.